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Originally Posted by healingme4me
My concern however, at this point is the process by which the OP moves on from this. Sounds like there's a certain desperation in needing his approval in terms if only she gave in to this or that command. My question about what life was like before him, is relevant in my eyes. What place was she in before he chewed her up and spit her out?
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We usually accept unacceptable when we are in a vulnerable/desperate state for number of reasons. So it’s impirtant to address that vulnerable state that it doesn’t happen again
I am also somewhat concerned that relatively short dating experience of 8 months became such a big thing in retrospect that even years later OP keeps thinking about him and isn’t dating anyone else. There is maybe something wrong wuth me but I don’t have much recollection of dating experiences that didn’t even last a year.