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Originally Posted by golden_eve
He needs to learn how to control his anger or frustration better. Why can't he listen to you or care about how this effects you? That says a lot about him. He is not respecting your wishes enough to curb his behavior. I would tell him he has an anger issue and that you will not accept him slamming the toilet seat down every time he gets frustrated with it. Draw the line and your boundaries of what is unacceptable and acceptable for you.
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I don't know either and even after trying to explain, it seem like he had to win the argument. This isn't about winning, it's about trying to understand one another. I know he was in a lot of pain, stress and all, and so am i. But that wasn't helping! It's like an injured dog biting at another injured dog. Not helping.