T put his thumbs up at my answer .. and had a big smile on his face.

How am I responsible for my happiness.... By taking control of my life. Not letting my life( the things going on that stress me) take control of me.

And all this thinking came about when I heard 2 cats mating outside my bedroom window at 3:30 this morning!!! LOL I'm sorry.. but I do have to say that I am sorta thankful that happened lol. Otherwise I dont know if I would have had that ah ha moment!