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My girlfriend dislikes my sister because my sister is “disrespectful and rude and doesn’t know how to treat people”. Which is true she’s very rude to our mother and myself.
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Your sister is rude and your gf has anxiety. No wonder your gf dislikes her and has little to say to her.
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my sisters friend told my sister that my girlfriend has been liking a lot of her posts but hasn’t been liking my sisters, and my sister says it’s cause my girlfriend is trying to infiltrate her life and being her down. Idk.
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Your response to this claim is “Idk”.
Your words indicate that you think that it is actually possible that your gf’s goal is to “infiltrate your sister’s life and bring her down”.
No wonder your gf does not feel supported.
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I ask my girlfriend to be nice and comply
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What do you mean by “comply”?
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but she doesn’t. If we go out and my sister is there she’ll just sit down with a bleak look on her face and not speak. Then when I ask her to be nice and kill with kindness she freaks out and cries and says I don’t care about her or consider her feelings.
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Have you asked your sister, who you say is the rude person here, “to be nice and comply” and “to kill with kindness”?
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My mom also pulled me to the side and says she’s just trying to divide the family. Idk if that’s true but I also could be blinded.
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Another “idk”. Are you saying that it is actually possible that your gf’s goal is to divide your family?
No wonder your gf does not feel supported.
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I really just need help I don’t know what to do.
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I think that you should support your gf and stop leaning on her.