If there's something that bothers you, I think you should speak up about it to your therapist, zoiecat, if you haven't already. After all, you're the client. I believe you have every right to do this. That's just my opinion, though. The final decision is up to you. I hope your therapy is working out ok for you. Feel free to PM me anytime. I'm always available if you need to talk. Sending many hugs to you