So to those who are now aware, I just want to say that I was very attached to my T, then she left me, and this attachment is causing so much pain, hurt and rejection.
Anyway I started to see another T to try and work through my feelings of this loss. I am not attached or nor will I attach to another T ever again, and if I did, I would leave because I don't see what good can come of these feelings.
Knowing ultimately you are just a job, it is very one sided, and you will inevitably be hurt in the long run.

So I'm just wondering how others feel about being attached or becoming attached? How does it make you feel? And of what benefit is it for?

I've read the boards a lot and it just seems that most people that get attached seem to be sad, vulnerable, hurt or angry, and if that's the case why on earth is this attachment seem to be a focus on therapy