Well, as they say, everything is grist for the mill.

I told my T I loved him, and it was deeply healing for me (because he responded well). It's a risk, for sure, but hopefully you know your T well enough to know if you can trust him with something so vulnerable.

Telling him also brought us closer. Because for so long I held that secret. Finally disclosing it, trusting him with the secret, it closed a gap between us.

I don't know, it's hard to explain, but for me it was worth it.