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Originally Posted by Background Noise
But how would you know if a relationship is a bad one before it starts, or before talking to the person and try to see some red flags? If someone decides to be single by choice and he/she is content, that's fine, but not all people (including those who had a bad relationship in the past) like to be single.
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If someone isn't good at ANY relationships it is usually their own issues that are causing the problem not the other people. If one stinks at relationships they don't just MAGICALLY happen right without work & change. If they want to do the work that creates the necessary changes then great go for it when one has done the work & starts to have normal relationships with the people around them.
If one stinks at relationships recognize it & either FIX the problem but don't make ones self or the other people more miserable trying to FORCE something to work.
There are plenty of people who don't want to be single who should.