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Originally Posted by eskielover
If someone isn't good at ANY relationships it is usually their own issues that are causing the problem not the other people. If one stinks at relationships they don't just MAGICALLY happen right without work & change. If they want to do the work that creates the necessary changes then great go for it when one has done the work & starts to have normal relationships with the people around them.
If one stinks at relationships recognize it & either FIX the problem but don't make ones self or the other people more miserable trying to FORCE something to work.
There are plenty of people who don't want to be single who should.
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And you honestly have no idea how hard I've been working on my communication skills. Why else do you think I came back to PC? I am legitimately trying to become a better person. I want to grow. I know that my quality of life could radically improve with better relationships with people.
It's just hard for me. Communication skills were never my strength. I've been socially awkward for as long as I can remember. Social ques don't come easy to me.
I've made progress though. Now I can hold conversations with strangers. 2 years ago I couldn't even do that. I'm also working on getting better at talking to women, which is something that I still struggle with because I find women intimidating.
So yes, I am making an effort to improve myself. It's just going slowly.