I suppose this is her nature and I should have known better than to seek blood from a stone in the first place.

I tried to get her to help me, which was involving family as well. See, there is this CONTROL dynamic in my family and toxic pride, I suppose.

Originally I had a spat with K.
I called Mom, who was witness to it, and merely said how angry I was. This one-minute phone call ended in silent treatment from Mom.
Meanwhile, K calls my other sister, her mom, who turns into mama bear against me...
I could go on in a flow chart of destruction involving the whole family.

Yep, this was all more of the phone game family dynamic that was toxic here anyway and has no stopped because I don’t call any of them anymore nor them me. Stopping that was for the best for sure!