Thread: I just need to accept the facts.
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Old Jan 28, 2019, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
Not everyone is cut out to be in a close relationship. If I had known what I do now I would have stayed single all my life. I live my single life now. I don't have any desire to date & refuse to beat myself up because I don't. I have friends I do things with.

It is important to accept you as you are more than feel bad because you aren't some other way. My EX should have stayed single all his life too.

Much better to stay out of bad relationships than to be miserable in one or fighting to make it work

More or less...same here. Granted I have been married for 28 + years, but it has NOT been a picnic, that is for sure. I wish I had stuck by my guns and not listened to my parents who convinced me that I couldn't live alone and support myself. I went through several periods of supporting the entire house due to my husband's idiocy with money.
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