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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
This led to a text where I poured my heart out for help and she rudely blew me off, dismissively. Then silence. Forever. She never called me again. She used to call me every day and we had a very good relationship.
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I wonder if you are just more emotional about your family than this sister is? Perhaps she got the impression that you didn't want to talk anymore or that talking right now just isn't working? You once said that one of your sister's mostly cut emotional ties with the family. I did that when I was younger because the relationship with my mom was more painful than happy. My mom was so much a part of my brother and sister's lives that it felt easy to move far away. Were your daily phone calls truly intimate? Or was she a bit detached all along? Does she really know that you want a relationship again? If she knows--I wouldn't bother until a lot more time has passed.
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Yep, this was all more of the phone game family dynamic that was toxic here anyway and has no stopped because I don’t call any of them anymore nor them me. Stopping that was for the best for sure!
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Instead of calling my mother again as well, I cried over it waiting to see if she’d ever call me again, which she DID NOT.
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You are saying opposite things here.
