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Originally Posted by Ponderingfellow22
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 11 months now. When we first started dating she told me she had anxiety, so I didn’t think much of it when I first brought her over and she wouldn’t really engage with my family. But now I’m starting to worry. She has opened up to my mom and stuff but her and my sister dislike each other. My girlfriend dislikes my sister because my sister is “disrespectful and rude and doesn’t know how to treat people”. Which is true she’s very rude to our mother and myself. Recently my sisters friend told my sister that my girlfriend has been liking a lot of her posts but hasn’t been liking my sisters, and my sister says it’s cause my girlfriend is trying to infiltrate her life and being her down. Idk. I ask my girlfriend to be nice and comply but she doesn’t. If we go out and my sister is there she’ll just sit down with a bleak look on her face and not speak. Then when I ask her to be nice and kill with kindness she freaks out and cries and says I don’t care about her or consider her feelings. My mom also pulled me to the side and says she’s just trying to divide the family. Idk if that’s true but I also could be blinded. She does come from a rough family life. I really just need help I don’t know what to do.
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I had some experience with this. In my case my brother exes and their wives and girlfriends were very jealous of everyone who even look at my brother where one of my sister who has a friend who is extremely controlling and is jealous of anyone who has my sister attention It kind of sound like your girlfriend might have a problem with your family and is trying to tear you apart from your family. Have you ask her why she is acting the way she is around your sister? Have you thought about gathering evidence like have a friend get together with your sister and girlfriend while your not there and record without their knowledge to see what is going on? Or have you listening on a phone call so you can hear what is going on. I would reevaluate my relationship with the girlfriend.