Yes, this is what's difficult for me, how in the past, when I was seeing both ex-T and ex-MC, they were essentially each others' backups--they were never both gone during the same week (even Christmas week, ex-MC usually came in at some point--he's Jewish). When I first started seeing current T, I think he and ex-MC were both gone the same week. T said he could offer me a backup, but his usual two were out for various reasons (I know one was on maternity leave), so he wasn't as sure about whoever he'd suggest to me, so I just said I'd be OK. I think this is the first time he's been away longer than like 5 days since then, so first time it's come up.