I would want to make sure that they didn’t feel violated that I had found them . Just thinking that they might think that if you know, others might.

An article I read somewhere said that finding other survivors of the exploitative T was both the survivor’s dream , and her nightmare. That pretty much sums it up for me. My subsequent therapist prepared me for discovering that there may be others because my Ex ex T was “too good at it” for it to be the first time.