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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver
Well I did this thing for t. It was very weird and different and I actually came out not really liking my t very much. I found her quite selfish and annoying so maybe this is a good way of breaking my attachment to her!
Also, I wasn’t comfortable seeing some of the stuff I did on her computer
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....and let that be a lesson to all of us.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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