also, about his inability to get an erection - he might have been completely comfortable with the game in theory, but men's bodies don't always respond accordingly. I probably wouldn't even talk to him about it - he's probably already embarrassed. I seriously doubt he lied - he would have been unlikely to take it that far if he was intellectually uncomfortable, but might have gotten scared at the last minute. It takes balls, so to speak (hahaha) to engage in the version of truth or dare that you guys played.