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Originally Posted by newtus
Bf and i are going ring shopping today. Just so i can give him some ideas of what i like.
Bf called his mom yesterday he told me. And asked her for her moms ring (his grandmas). She said no but told him he could use his tax refund check for one. He also told me that she asked him if i knew. He said i kinda do, cuz i wanna get married, but he wants most of it to be a surprise.
He told me all that. I was very surprised he called his mom, because he doesnt a lot because hes busy and such.
So maybe this is going somewhere [emoji3526] im so excited to go looking at rings.
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She refused to give grandmother's ring?



That would have dumbfounded me if I was him. That's shocking. I don't think I'd ever buy a diamond ring for anyone. I would just save the money for a better honey moon and give her a gold band. I think too much expectations for men to cash over bigly (as our president says lol) for a rock in a cave.
I bought a $400 ring for my ex girlfriend just as a gift. It was really nice, It had a ruby in the the shape of a heart on it, with diamonds on each sides. After we broke up, I didn't say anything, i just let it go like I did everything else, so that we didn't bicker, so that we'd part and still remain "friends". I always said that I'd pay our bills so that, if the time ever comes, she would help me out a little while I go to the university. turns out, that ex went complete mod-mentality on me while I went to the university. I Never asked her for anything except once where I showed weakness due to my illness, and she revealed her true colors of what kind of person she really is. She was focusing too much time to her physical self, and not enough time for her chaos within. Turns out, a bachelors in education, her degree, didn't really teach her anything at all when it comes to understanding people on a deeper level. She has smallness of soul.