I instinctively disagree OpenEyes. I usually feel dominated by your voice on threads - not sure it that's just written style or you really do believe there is only one way to go. There doesn't seem to be much space for difference or give and take.

That's my impression. I don't actually know you in all your real life dimensions! I might get to know you better as times goes by! That has happened to me with people who I found difficult. But you "can't be sure" that I will agree with you, ever! It is actually unlikely. I need breathing space, not a unilateral certainty.

If I was a mod I would have an understanding of moderating - that's true. But how can I give you an understanding of how your loud unilatralism affects me??? It's always loud, and doesn't seem to leave space for what I understand as being human.

But I can ignore you, until I get to see other sides of who you are. That's what peeps could do with WishfulThinking. Ignoring someone just means that they trigger a difficult emotion, much less judgemental.

I'm not challenging the mods as such. Mods enforce rules. I was supporting WishfulThinking as he/she moves forward in this, which is different.