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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
I think it depends on whether you felt you were out of line, whether you felt heard and if your sister if being realistic. If the answer is no to all those things it might be better to pull back for now and let things be.
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I was out of line, but it was a knee jerk reaction to being antagonized by K. I immediately apologized and removed the single, stupid post from facebook.
I was definitely not heard. In fact I was shut down by family who refused to engage me, even worse, probably lied about intentionally when they put words in my mouth to vilify me.
The interesting thing is both sisters, intelligent women, must truly believe they are being realistic and so in the right that they are quite proud of themselves for their callous treatment of me, even knowing what emotional state I am in over this. But, they are completely not in the right at all and there was no convincing them otherwise... perhaps someone spoke such lies about me they were poisoned against me? Or they just never thought too highly of me to start with.
Note: I have been a very generous and loving daughter and sister.
I have tried way too hard with these people and doing nothing seems to be the best course of action here.
Thanks, my village!