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Old Jan 30, 2019, 12:23 PM
Anonymous42076
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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
Why can't you just say exactly as it is? I could never understand this need to wrap what people want to say in a pretty cover or else they are afraid to come across as rude or whatever. You are objectively pointing out to some fact that takes place. There is nothing personal about it. You are not petty. You have the right to do that because you pay for a certain amount of time and are entitled to get it. You are not accusing the T of anything horrible, not making a big deal out of this. No reasonable person would take offense if you let them know that they've been habitually late and that it takes away from your session time and that you'd like to have all the session time you are supposed to have. If they take it personally, it's their problem, not yours.
It's not just that I'm afraid of seeming rude or petty, but that there have been numerous times where I was made to feel awful or was punished for simply not saying something the "right" way or used the wrong tone. Like right now I'm kind of heartbroken over a friendship. I loaned my best friend money, and while there was no rush on being paid back they've completely ignored me and have basically tossed me aside. I know I did nothing wrong, and was careful the way I approached the situation but still can't help feeling disposable and awful.
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