I remind myself that my T is human and that I am not his only client or his main priority. He has numerous other commitments and can't be available to me 24/7. He will get back to me when or if he can, and otherwise we'll talk about it in session.
I'm not saying for a second that its easy. I WANT him available to me 24/7. I WANT him to reply to my every email and text message. I WANT to be around him constantly.
So every now and then I have to activate my rational brain and remind myself of the above.
|