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Old Jan 30, 2019, 03:33 PM
JaneTennison1 JaneTennison1 is offline
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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia View Post
There was also an element of wanting to impress, but the procrastination/avoidance/distraction from real life real important things was by far the top one reason. I did that with many other people as well, not just Ts, even used a forum in that way very much and to some extent this one as well. Don't know if anyone relates to this, just thought to share as one version.
I relate to this part. I was avoiding a lot of my life while with ex t 1. I was deeply grieving and as well going through a huge life change. It is like that is where my brain went to be safe. I found so much satisfaction in ending that connection and reinvolving myself with my actual life and the people in it. That's just me though.