That's good that you have such a caring t, pink.
i don't know about you but I always feel like, even when they say "You can always call, you know', that i *can't call right away. even if things start snowballing immediately, i feel like there's a time clock and i have to get past at least 24 hours since i saw t before i can possibly even think of calling.
I'm still within that 24 hours =(
Are you doing better with processing the si? i wish this were easier for you.
kiya