I shared this one with my T recently...

I noticed that I say "I don't know" to a lot of his questions. I was thinking about it one day because I noticed more and more when I responded that way he responded with "yes you do". I realized that I was trying to make HIM do the work for me, so I could just sit back and enjoy the ride, so to speak.

After that realization I promised him that I wouldn't say "I don't know" unless I truly, 100% did not know, and then we'd try and figure it out together.