I am bipolar II and I thought I was in remission with meds but then on Christmas I had an "episode" where its sort of like a dissociative state with a bit of fugue and uncharacteristic behaviors. I still feel guilty. Bipolar is the new soup du jour right now. Everytime you hear of a celeb meltdown its always " he/she is bipolar". I get sick of it. It is not a curse- its no fun and embarassing for sure but it doesnt curse us as people. Is there anyway you can cut your sister out or stop dealing with her? As of right now its not healthy so why bother? And your daughter? I dont understand that one. Were you very ill as she was growing up? Perhaps therapy for yourself and possibly her could help.