So first I did not realize you could still get ssi.....albeit the checks are way less with that especially since they consider your partners income too. I think you can do it too but most of your day will be spent working probably retail because those are the jobs that make consistent money. You’ll have to go to work even if you feel depressed because there will be no other option than losing your job. Eventually you’ll lose the ssi because your checks from work will be too high so ssi isn’t a long term solution if you’re working.


I don’t blame you for wanting a normal life....I’m happy you’re getting engaged because it’s what you want however normality is almost a luxury for most of us. Consider it jealously or whatever but most of us couldn’t afford to do what you’re doing, to leap without a plan. Idk when I left science I leapt with a vague plan and now I’m still looking for jobs after a few temporary ones. I suppose what I’m saying is make it a long engagement...make sure you can survive on your work income before tossing the ssdi aside. Again....I’m happy you’re happy but I also wanted to provide insight into why some people have a negative outlook.