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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
“[I think this is more about her not liking the fact that I will no longer "cater" to her demands. I am also at fault here for enabling her for so long when I should have said from the beginning, "Don't bother me at work. Look it up yourself."]”
^This
We get into a toxic pattern with people and then when we try to stop, we lose the relationship.  |
Like Divine said, I should have ignored her when I'm working (no matter how "desperate" her voice mail sounded). Even though I can't change the past, I will learn from my mistakes, and will try to do better in the future.
I only have therapy once a month, so PC has been helpful in-between sessions!