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Originally Posted by here today
What is it about the 2-3 weeks post surgery that you are afraid of? Not having enough distractions, not being able to distract yourself? Will you still be able to use the internet? If so, then you have us.  |
I should have been more clear. Due to the type of surgery, I am on limits on things I can and can't do for 2-3 weeks. (including driving and very limited walking) So I need to stay with my mom so she can help me and help take care of my dog. That's the one place in the world, emotions are not ok. So if I was still struggling and it felt "intense" I'd be unsure of how to get those out, since I can't do much there but ya I can post here.... maybe I'll be lucky and my surgery will magically erase my memories and pain all together
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Originally Posted by toomanycats
a psychoanalyst would be open to immediate multiple times a week...but usually long term
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Ya it seems that so I'm not open to 2x a week anymore. I just thought it would be a good way to get it done faster.
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I know people on here have had mixed results with it, but have you considered trying one of the online therapy places? There's a link to Betterhelp on this site and I know there's another major one--can't think of the name right now. But that would probably help with the attachment issue, and you could still work with them during your recovery from surgery. Just a thought... no idea how insurance works with them though.
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I would consider if it wasn't a huge trigger in itself. One of things I don't discuss here about T but ya the video chat stuff was "our thing" and not very T like at all. I miss it and we discussed doing if after my surgery... and then hell happened. I don't think I'm in a good place to handle this, even though it has perks.