I think most T's are trained in/have experience helping people with grief and loss, as it's something that most everyone deals with at some point. My T didn't list anything about grief/loss, but he seems very knowledgeable about the process and has helped me get through the ex-MC stuff. So I wouldn't write that guy off without meeting him.

Another thought is...if you're worried about attachment to one T. Could you maybe see one T for 4 weeks, then if you feel you still need help working on the grief, go see a different T for 4 weeks?