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Old Feb 01, 2019, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
I think most T's are trained in/have experience helping people with grief and loss, as it's something that most everyone deals with at some point. My T didn't list anything about grief/loss, but he seems very knowledgeable about the process and has helped me get through the ex-MC stuff. So I wouldn't write that guy off without meeting him.

Another thought is...if you're worried about attachment to one T. Could you maybe see one T for 4 weeks, then if you feel you still need help working on the grief, go see a different T for 4 weeks?
That's good to know, I will try him, I mean neither choice is ideal but I'm looking for opposite of what I'd normally like about someone.

Ya I could swap every 4. Thankfully the surgery will put a huge gap in sessions so I either wont return at all by the time I can or I surely wont care about them in the slightest... so I should be ok for the first 4.
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