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Old Feb 01, 2019, 07:29 PM
Waterloo12345 Waterloo12345 is offline
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
Thank you for the article. I read it with interest, and thought it seems very promising for brining together the sensitivity of psychoanalysis with th science of CBT. I am so sorry you got hurt in the middle of the processes. It is so painful a process, an once the sense is built that you are in it together, I believe there should be a sacredness about that and not giving up before the work is done, unless both understand there is an impasse that cannot yield. I hope you are okay.

My pleasure. I got it from the cptsd sub reddit.

And thanks for your thoughts. I agree with you on being in it to the end unless there is an impasse that cannot yield. I believe (current thinking anyway) that he did feel there was an impasse that could not yield but where he fell down was the 'both understand'. I'm struggling to understand. I can make good guesses but I'd rather he just bloody told me and we talked about it so I can understand. Even if don't agree.