SE, she's asking because being the wife of a minister is a totally different situation than most Christians are aware of...and the minister's wife has no one to go to (Well, God, of course) with feelings and upsets and the like because everyone envisions the minister to be "almost perfect and able to walk on water."

It's a very tough ministry and calling, imo. One the average person can't begin to fathom. Sorry, no offense, just the facts.