So I met this girl back in OCT (im 24 shes19) we have been talking and getting to know each other quite well. Shes been single for about a year after she got out a 2 year "bad" relationship. To my knowledge it was her first REAL relationship. she really liked the guy but was used, ignored, "neglected", manipulated (emtoinally and physically) and cheated on at the end. Shes told me very little due to some breakdowns she has had and I was there to comfort her but she doesn't really talk about stuff its ususally just like barely touch the surface and then choose to not talk.

I told her since the beginging that if things are to work out I have to know a little of whats going on cause ti not fair to me(IVE RECENTLY told her that she doesn't need to tell me anything but I just want to understand to try to help where I can). I have also been very caring and understanding with these "episodes" she has. She does have anxiety and ive been very helpful with that too.
Im not trying to rush anything with her.
She knows all of this and is happy that she can talk to me and that im there for her.

I just want to know what can I do or should do if anytnign. There are people who do know like friends that I guess when through the whole thing with her. I know not to force her to talk, even though I feel it would help But she is choosing to suppress things.
Ive recently told her that if she wants to do that let me know so I wont be trying to talk and making her "solution" not effective but I feel it not smart.

I know this is super brief and quick but im curious. Am I doing anything wrong? Have I said anything wrong? What else can I do?

ANY comments questions thoughts input concerns would help ill be more than glad to give more if I can.

please and thank you