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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I think I'd have trouble dealing with that, particularly the seeing my T in a bathrobe part. Or just what you learn about someone from being in their home. Do you feel you could talk to her about what the change in boundaries feels like?
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i have told her that i am just not comfortable with calling and all that stuff ,that it feels invasive to her . i have also told her i am having difficulty with feeling that i am contaminating her home with my horribleness . she said that is not true at all that she feels honored when i trust her enough to share the horribleness. im not so sure that is true . as far as the bathrobe thing i just feel that is one of the things better left unaddressed .