Well, granite, youre not a kid anymore, so its not like you need to protect yourself from your t at this point. You say yourself its about trusting her. You say you dont want to, because what if something happens. I think you put your heart in your art.

Do you read jessica11's posts? She sees an aged t at her home too.

Eta - plus, i am never ready when people come over! So i must admit, i totally sympathize with the t.