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Originally Posted by TeaFruit
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Anyway I said to them "It must've been exhausting for you "? And there response was quite aggressive but in a mild tone and said "Of course,of course "
and I felt this huge sense of shame because I thought I did some thing wrong and felt told off. There response reminded me how my sister reacts to me quite aggressively some times
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Also is it normal what I have described to happen in a DBT group?
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I cannot answer your last question, but...but..but..but...
I clipped out something that you wrote because it really seems important in a breakthrough sense.
I don't think the of course of course was aggressive because I can come up with a million other ways that could be an aggressive response and that isn't one of them but it brought up how your sister has made you feel and tapping into how the past shapes the present and our interactions with others it might be a decent therapy focus. Just a thought. I know your focus in the op is about many other areas at the same time don't let this part get lost in the muddiness of it all.