I understand your concerns, Mountaindewed. I think WishfulThinker66 may be right. That may be the cause for her behavior. Or maybe it's a form of depression. The only way to know for sure is to go to a doctor and get a proper diagnosis. I'd talk to this person about this and see how it goes from there, if you haven't already. Make her understand that she may need some help to deal with this. Remember that you can only do so much to help. The final decision is up to her. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you