Not for nothing, but that's what you took from Sisabel's post?

Maybe it's about changing the direction of your focus? Plenty of women in their early 40s are having babies. So, at 34 give yourself some kindness and be gentle on this pressure.

There are steps that you can take now without waiting around on mr knight in shining armor to wisk you away(my term not yours). Family and House can be done without needing a man in 2019.