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Blondie7 said:
i don't want my parents to find out.

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It is good that you have your best friend blondie. It is so important to have someone you can trust to confide in.

I don;t wish to sound like a parent to you but please know that most of us love our children more than ourselves,,though we may not show it as often as we should.

You probably feel shame and that is a real feeling and I think you might be feeling a bit of fear,,,for that feeling has helped you to look for us...That is good to..

But if you really want to change and not feel the shame or fear,,,you need to think about taking the next step and ask for some guidence in your real world...maybe a teacher or counselor at school...

Ask that your privacy be protected and share the same feelings you have shared here...they won't look down upon you or turn you away...on that I promise...

Keep talking...

Lenny