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Originally Posted by susannahsays
I think you can have ruptures without transference. For example, the therapist can do something legitimately or objectively wrong that can provoke a rupture that has nothing to do with transference and everything to do with the transgression.
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Completely agree. None of the ruptures I've experienced in therapy were due to transference. Some were significant misunderstandings, some were inadvertent errors, some were just plain old incompetence, but all were gounded in the real relationship and objective interactions between me and the therapist.