Lol.

I guess men tend to be DOERS. They show their care by doing something for you. They might arrange breakfast in bed... Or buy you flowers... Or get you that book you have been talking about... Or drive you around town for that shopping excersion.

Men (quite often) aren't so good at telling you how they feel (what are empty words worth?) They tend to show you how they feel by DOING STUFF. Often... From a females perspective... The stuff they do... Might be imperceptable. Not because it is insignificant or unimportant or ineffectual... Just because...

Women tend to say they care and want to talk about it... But in terms of action... Maybe that is harder.

I personally think... That solely by virtue of being born male or female... We are who we are... A guy who tries to act 'stereotypically male' is about as unappealling (and inauthentic) as a girl who tries to act 'stereotypically female'. Maybe that doesn't have quite the same ring to guys as it will to girls...

I just meant to say... That what it is to be a guy is to... Be a guy. And if you are a guy... Well, then, you are a guy. Hello. And fulfilling some stereotype of 'macho male' well... If it helps you feel better then go for your life. But with respect to making it with the girls (clearly an interest of every 'macho male') well... You better foster your sensitive feminine side. Lol.