> Fluid transfer... really didn't happen.

As I said - drinking from someone elses drink bottle counts as a fluid transfer. You can get meningitus from drinking from someone elses drink bottle because of the saliva transfer.

With respect to licking penises... Guys have this stuff called 'pre-cum' which is prior to ejactulation and tends to get emitted when they are erect. In the interests of lubrication. Oral sex... Counts of a transmission of fluid in that respect.

Ya get me? Sexual lubrication fluid... Is more risky than saliva... And there are plenty of risks with saliva already.

I'm all for free love and free expression of love... And that was a wonderful thing. But unfortunately... What curbed that slightly... Was a recognition of such things as HIV infection. And then there is meningitus and HPV virus (impacts on cervical cancer) and meningitus risk with saliva.

And so... There are safe sex practices for a reason. Whether you think of it as sexual play or not... Do you really want to be explaining to a future life partner how you contacted whatever infectious disease from sexual play at 15?????

Ya get me?

I'm all for whatever feels right - don't get me wrong.
But look out for your future life partner too: Take care of yourselves.

And yes, that means facing up to the (potential) emotional significance of the current activities etc.