I’ve been told by a few people, (including “professionals” ) none of whom are in my life any more, that I’m “too needy”. To be honest, this judgment makes me angry. Do you think I’m “abnormal” to feel annoyed by being summed up and judged in that way? I’m a complex human being/bear and I also try to be respectful of others, and their boundaries. I beat myself up when I fail. And this doesn’t help...like many here I’ve had many abusers in my life who were very effective at harming me