I'm so sorry, bluebicycle I agree with USMCBIPOLAR7. Just try to divide your goal in smaller goals. The least you can manage. You could clean up one room at the time, for example, or take care of different activities (the clothes, the kitchen). Try to do that until you've completed them all. At that point, you should have completed your main goal! Just take it one step at the time. Take baby steps. You can do this! You're strong, I know that. I believe in you. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you