Sisabel: Thank you so much for your reply. Always great hearing from you. Yeah I agree that although shyness/social anxiety are not always inter-related, people in general are otherwise brainless and fickle when it comes to being absolutely perfect with what you say or do socially. If half of the population is introverted maybe it's just simply another way of being

Goforward: Now that is the most superficial thing for your husband to leave you over. I am so sorry that you had to go through that. Since I am an ambivert who has quite a bit of introverted friends I think you will eventually come across people who will accept you for who you are