Thank you so much for your encouraging reply, divine1966. I guess some people are somewhat deceptive with so-called "good intentions". You know I never really thought about the meaning of that phrase in the past but it has much more relatable meaning now that you brought it to the table.

I'm glad that you relate. My number one priority right now is re-discovering my passions, beliefs, and the ones who truly are my friends, but not doing this process for someone else. With the exception of several friends who truly feel strongly about me and who I still keep tabs with, holding onto my past (and often unhealthy) will do more harm than good. And Mark is no different.

Wow you really set a good study example which I can always use! That's awesome that you have attended grad school also. Kudos to grad life! Mind if I ask what you studied?