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Originally Posted by Client xx
For those of you who love or who have loved your therapist..
Do or did you find it healing in your therapy? Or do/did you find it damaging?
Was it helpful or a hinderance?
Are you a healthier/whole person because of the experience?
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I loved/love my former T. I did think it was healing, but since losing her, maybe it has been damaging. The loss part...that's damaging. Loving her and having her love me, that part wasn't. But when that love was gone then all that is left is a great big giant crater. I think it was mostly helpful at the time, but I think it is a hindrance to my current therapy. I don't want to get close. I don't want to be vulnerable. I don't want to attach. Etc.