I don't think there's a single answer, emma345. Different people like different things. I'd just focus on being yourself. That way you'll attract men that like you for who you truly are. Jus try to take care of yourself before jumping into a relationship. What are your hobbies? What do you like to do? Perhaps you could try to do some activities that you like and meet some new people there. I agree with sarahsweets. Try to be happy by yourself first. I think that's the most important quality. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you