I have had those that gave me what I needed when I needed it and I very easily could have fallen into the vulnerable feelings trap, but I have always reminded myself that they are just doing what they are paid for. I am paying for a service and that includes a professional relationship. On a side note, I had a wonderful T take me on self pay and write off much of my bill when I first sought help. Without her, I would have never stuck with the system as long as I have. Love? I wasn't even capable of it back then.